"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sorry, need y'alls opinions on another question. This one not revolving around a particular girl, but as general technique.

Correct me if I am wrong, but I facet of SS, and in fact, all seduction is to not appear too eager or needy. Even more so if trying the rare "friend conversion"... So I have been trying to find "suggestions" and convo topics that would not give away my intentions. I am considering talking about MY feelings towards another girl to open things up. eg: "There is this one girl at school who I really like for some reason... have you ever felt that connection with someone but you can't figure out why?...you feel warm when they are around...etc etc"

Now, are the positive effects of this: delivering a suggestion and masking your IL worth the possible side effects of FREAKING HER OUT or making her think you are more interested in another girl...

Just thinking outloud as a type, but if you demonstrated a medium IL in this other girl, it might have the listed positive effects but also make her think she better get you while she can. That is, if you convey that there is high IL on the part of the other chick...

Boy, just posting this I learned so much! bah, I will post it anyway. Maybe someone has a different take on it, or someone can learn SOMETHING from it...

Thanks
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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