"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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WHOA....what's this???

ARrocket

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Ok, 2 years ago I was totally in love with this girl, but I was a total AFC. I had been reading David DeAngelo's emails, but C&F alone isn't gonna do it all.

So she LJBF me, pretty much. I was pretty sure she liked me at some point, but maybe I took to long to make a move?? It took me forever to get over her (because I remained in close contact with her), but I finally did, and we're still pretty good friends. She's now pretty far from me (we went in opposite directions for college), but we talk often. Since she LJBF me, I started practicing my skills on her (but not much kino). I also am ALWAYS telling her about some other girl.

So we were exchanging emails, and after she said "no me gusta" (I don't like) I said "Yo te gusto" (You like me).

So, she sends me this long reply about how she wants to know why I said that, and she won't be able to sleep if I don't tell her, and she really really wants to know. What's going on here?

PS: I have NO interest in her now (I'd bang her, but truthfully the friendship is much more important to me now).
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well, it might be misplaced on this forum, because I'm not really trying to seduce her, but...what's going on with her? Unresolved feelings?
 
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