"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Who Really Controls the Dating Game?

Valentino14

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sylvester the cat said:
indeed. if it's pu$$y you want then you will find pu$$y literally growing on trees at your disposal for you to fvck. they are 1s and 2s at a push but unless you've got the tools to catch a 10 then beggars cannot be choosers.

besides, with the right lighting they ain't so bad...:rock:

http://31.media.tumblr.com/411eb906c03722f6bf2075a912c8e109/tumblr_mnsbcy42os1spyqhno1_500.jpg
Bang some overweight slob? No thanks.

Never lower your standards. Move up instead of moving down. It all begins with your own individual improvement. Self improvement enables you to reach your higher goals both with your life and with women. When you do that, you won't have to lower your standards. Only lazy men lower their standards.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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JaegerPilot217

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Wolfgang D said:
I am aware of this, and I have heard women say that while it is easy to find a guy if they would just want sex (which few women do), it is hard to find a guy who wants a relationship, which is what the women are really after.

BUT, at the end of the day and all things considered, I think women hold most of the cards in the dating game.

Just look at who pays drinks for whom, even when we have the same paycheck.
Yeah because women ultimately usually have the final say, since almost all the time us guys are expected to do the approaching and asking out
 
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