Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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who is Rich here?

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The first step to being rich is to become affluent. That means you have $100,000 in savings. This puts you in a relaxed position of having a good year's salary put away, which gives you flexibility. The first step to having $100,000 in savings is being able to earn $100,000 as fast as possible.

My income has been increasing with multiple work contracts.

In the past 5 weeks I took home $50,000, which is the fastest I ever earned $50,000. This income combined with the fact I saved it all actually made me affluent for the first time. I had invested most of my money into the business until now.

I achieved affluence by first developing a skill that pays $80-$90 an hour Corp to Corp, and then by getting three full time contracts at once (C++, C#, OpenGL is my niche). But to be honest, I'm thinking two contracts is the most I should work over the long term. Three is too much.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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