"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Who is on your Jury?

Epimanes

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Interesting question....

For me it used to be everyone. Always worried about what others thought of me growing up. Always people pleasing. But now adays that's changed. I only allow my wife, and a few select to be on my jury. Its taken quite a while to let go of everyone elses opinion of me and not let it effect me, but its difficult and sometimes still is. However it get easier and easier as life goes on.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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FairShake

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My woman (when there is one), my brother/sister/parents, a couple good friends, my boss, and my dog. That's pretty much it.

That said I treat people better than average overall. Greases the skids of life better.
 
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