"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Who here has their own place?

I-am-someone

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I'm moving out in a few weeks to a month. My brother is moving to another country and I can get his room (yes, one room).
I've actually been forbidden to move out of the house by my parents until about 2 months ago. I'm definitely going to enjoy living there for the next months - it's close to the city center (10 minute walk to all the major clubs) and it's well taken care of. Definitely going to LOVE living there.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Luscious

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Originally posted by john
this is like the guy that thinks just because he is rich he will get chicks.

having your own place helps, but endgame is only a small piece of the puzzle.

if your game is good, you can close anywhere.

if you think you will get more ***** when you are on your own, you are in for a big surprise.

i mean can you even extract a chick from a club? if not, having your own place doesnt mean a thing.

can you build sufficient attraction so you dont get flakes?

this is more important. as they say, when you have attraction, nothing else matters, if you dont then you are screwed.
Ding!
 
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