Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
LOL they aren't talking about the "beliefs" of scientists. They are talking about facts that have been objectively proven to be true by scientists. There's no opinion in here. Claiming that humans aren't naturally monogamous is like claiming that a peanut weighs more than an elephant - there's no opinion involved, it's just not true.namismybabe said:
Oh my god...namismybabe said:There is no evidence humans are either monogamous or polygamous.
So to say it's "just projection of personal feeling" is not true.
Unless you were alive in Paleolithic times, then I doubt ANYBODY can truly prove it.
In today's society a man can and should be able to "cheat" as much as he pleases. Values such as honor and integrity have been corrupted by piss poor excuses of "men" who adopt their beliefs based on an outdated medieval courtship system and shamelessly practice them within the modern day hor matrix. Most of these so called monogamous relationships are not even monogamous at all. They fall under the definition of "serial monogamy" which is really an oxymoron when you take the time to analyze and think about these circumstances.TheException said:
The definition of what it means to be "alpha" changes with time. The alphas of 20 to 30 years ago were fundamentally different then those of today.Wolfgang D said:
I don't trust the beliefs of scientists.Syrio said:
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Eh? It's common knowledge that science, especially social science, is just belief used to push moral/ideological agendas.Syrio said:
Obviously butthurt. Wonder how how many women have cheated on you for you to develop such a negative view of them. If you wish to be as celibate as a catholic priest, who am I to belittle you.C-quenced said:
That doesn't make any sense. Why would you have a wh*re become your girlfriend in the first place?C-quenced said:
Theres plenty evidence of monogamy. Just because you dont believe in it, and just because you may not practice it, doesnt mean it doesnt exist naturally in many humans.namismybabe said:There is no evidence humans are either monogamous or polygamous.
So to say it's "just projection of personal feeling" is not true.
Unless you were alive in Paleolithic times, then I doubt ANYBODY can truly prove it.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It only happened once (as far as I know), but at the end of the day why should that even matter? Why should this have such a negative and profound effect on my life? Is my sense of self worth and my purpose in life linked to having female acceptance?TheException said:
It could be a lack of reading comprehension or perhaps you don't have the slightest understanding of how the world works. At 17 I was ignorant and naive too.Frayzer said: