Lately my sex life has 3 phases:
1) Late night. We've had a few drinks. It's 3AM. She is ready to go but I simply can't perform the same after drinking. Last night she was begging me to the point of putting a porno on (which we'd never watched together). I couldn't do it. In fact, it becomes almost stage fright once I pay attention to it. It's becoming a complex.
2) Morning. I wake up at full attention but she wants to sleep. She is naturally loving and affectionate in her sleep, she is always touching me or putting her arm around me. But the minute I wake her, she says no, so I don't push it.
3) Late morning. She is willing because she wants me to be happy, but she's not that excited about it or really in the mood/hungover so I decline as not to grovel.
Are we just incompatible? Or maybe I need to stop drinking?
1) Late night. We've had a few drinks. It's 3AM. She is ready to go but I simply can't perform the same after drinking. Last night she was begging me to the point of putting a porno on (which we'd never watched together). I couldn't do it. In fact, it becomes almost stage fright once I pay attention to it. It's becoming a complex.
2) Morning. I wake up at full attention but she wants to sleep. She is naturally loving and affectionate in her sleep, she is always touching me or putting her arm around me. But the minute I wake her, she says no, so I don't push it.
3) Late morning. She is willing because she wants me to be happy, but she's not that excited about it or really in the mood/hungover so I decline as not to grovel.
Are we just incompatible? Or maybe I need to stop drinking?