"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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which one? too many to chose!

hotice

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I'm a sophmore right now and i'm havin a bit of trouble that some guys get. Theres 3 girls, one my friend sam, one name aylssa, and the other jackie. Jackie is a senior that has been flirtin with me non-stop for a few weeks, even gone as far as kissing me in public. Con, heard nasty rumors that shes open longer than 7/11.

Then theres this girl Aylssa, shes an alright girl, senior too, almost no ass but nice tits. Aparently she be likin me for awhile now, and shes a deffineite possibility no real pros or cons just an average older girl.

then theres my friend sam, we've been friends since august and shes a year younger than me. Shes maaddd hot, and we flirt all the time. Thing is shes in a quasi-relationship with her ex-billy. in her words "we're not going out but we act like we are" they are going outin terms of "i refuse to cheat on him" ect with dates in stuff but they refuse to say they're going out.

Now i've been poaching for about a month now and we've gotten super close but she refuses to get any closer because of this prick but theres still the possibility cuz we mad close. Now i got 3 options. jackie, senior, big flirt, 75% of school say she grimey. Aylssa, senior, alright cute girl, no real cons same with pros. and theres sam, ....look up i dun wanna type more. Which should i go for! mind you im still a virgin and i dont want to lose it to sum nasty girl.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hit the 2 seniors and then go for Sam.
 

Haboob

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Man, why the hell are you even asking. It's your life, your choice. You know how you feel, we don't. The only one who can make the descision is you!
 
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