"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Which is most importan Rapport or Attraction

-HPNOTIQ-

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Attraction = ONS

Rapport = LJBF or LTRs

Attraction is sexual by nature. Its primal. Its natural. Its unspoken. It can happen without any words. Without any rapport. Its what will get you laid in a ONS.

Rapport is communicative. Its cultivated. Its built on trust. Its built on history. Rapport means understanding. It may eventually lead to attractiveness which leads to a strong LTR. But, it may also lead to a LJBFs attitude.

Which is better? Its up to you. For me, I want both. I'd hate to be attracted to a woman that has zero education, zero people skills, and zero personality. Conversely, I'd hate to have a strong hearted woman who's been beat up by the ugly stick.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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