Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Which is more important Quantity or Quality?

SharinganUser

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I was wondering what people think is more important when it comes to practicing what we read here on the web site. There are pros and cons to both. I tend to go for quality because that is just how I am. I think it's better in the long run. Quantity is important to because it allows you to practice so much.

But really I think it depends on what type of person you are. Aswell I think that a balance of quantity and quality is important to reach. I tend to use C&F on every women I meet, BUT I only use KINO on ones that I think are quality. The quantity women I meet only get C&F, but the quantity ones get C&F +KINO.

Anyway, my question is what do you think is more important and why?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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blinkwatt

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I will take quality over quantity any day. Where is the fun in pulling a slut that 50+ guys have slept with????? To her your are just "another notch on the belt".
Society makes it out to be all about sex..........What ever happened to putting time into something,like a relationship and having the sex mean soo much more?

To each their own.:)
 

KillaCam

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Interesting topic. Quality is of the utmost importance, but, everyone's definition of such a thing is quite different. As well, with quality, comes less availability, so finding the balance is indeed important.

Still, i'd take a smokin' hot hoe over a string of average girls anyday.
 

itishe

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Quality.

A quality chick makes you feel damn good at the end of the day, and won't give you drama.
 

ChrizZ

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I´m going for quantity because I hardly see any hot chicks. If I do though, I think it´s way easier for me to approach them than ugly chicks. When I talk to ugly chicks they almost start peeing their pants because they´re so intimidated by my looks (not to sound arrogant)

Sarge on...:rockon:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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d9930380

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Take the rough with the smooth.
I find that when it's been a while, I loose confidence and therefore it's harder with the quality.
 

Distant Light

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Why can't you just have a high quantity of high quality women?

But I think if you had to choose one I'd pick quality. If you are just starting out though its best to go for quantity in order to get some experience under your belt.
 

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Well there's the saying that unless you're looking for a soul mate then quantity IS quality.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Depends on what your needs may be. For example, some guys may merit their worthiness or sexual prowess by the amount of women they bed; they'll use it as a measuring stick quite like the many concerns about the size of their penis.

For other guys they may define themselves as a commodity which merits discerning customers, that they are better than what some women deserve and will go out of their way not to bed just any woman. Of course their can be other reasons but these were just polar examples.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Quality .... But, that does not mean you should wait forever
 
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