"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Which Advice Do U Follow?

COD

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One of the major problems with the Internet is that everyone and their cousin who has access to a computer can post their opinion instantly and even create/alter something that appears legit. People sometimes confuse opinion with fact. A person curious about a topic can post a simple question and get so many conflicting opinions, off topics and even virtual arguments complete with derogatory slanders. Information on the Net is super saturated but, practical, accurate, reliable and verifiable Intel (at present) is rather tedious to secure. So how can one separate fact from fiction Online?.

1) CONSIDER THE SOURCE-rely on reputable companies with secure sites that offer sound specific advice. Seek out the reputation/credibility of the author-who posted the link, blog, picture, info, etc. Look at who owns/runs the site?

2) COMMON SENSE- if it appears too good to be true, odds are it is. Do they substantiate their claims or just offer compelling promises without examples of satisfied customers. Do they post origin source links to related articles?.

3) FINE PRINT-read the small fine print at the bottom of the page, how current is the Intel ( when was it last updated) look for disclaimers, etc. Do they offer refunds if not completely satisfied?

4) CROSS REFERENCE-seek out other opinions with similar findings, don’t just rely on one source for your inquiry.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mistic

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Bro, good advice is getting scarce around here. If I was personally looking for advice here, I would either pm an old timer with credentials, or stick to reading the bible for now.
 

daygameguy

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advice on relationships is just not needed at all unless you have common sense problems.

advice on game is best available though videos and books.

forums are just a place for feedback, or to let others keep you on the right path with constructive criticism.
 

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yup....the cut n paste book (emails that reap success, pickup lines that rock, THE ONLY SPEED DATING tips, cheating 101, one nite stands, inner game, ipod dating, voicemail 101, PIMP MY PROFILE 101, getting her back.............)

www.lulu.com/content/231078
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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