"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Babnik said:
BTW, South Carolina has FUGLY girls.
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That's some funny stuff right there. But there are hotties in Columbia, SC. Hilton Head and Charleston, too.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ninja Bob said:
That's some funny stuff right there. But there are hotties in Columbia, SC. Hilton Head and Charleston, too.
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I'm in Columbia and OMFG are these chicks fugly.
 
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Ain't no even need in asking bro the best women all reside in Africa... and that's real.
 
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I know the hottest girls sure don't come from England. I was watching the UFC from England, and in the US, most of the women that goes to watch UFC are soooo fvcking hot, so I was expecting to see alot of hotties at the UFC in England, but gosh, the women in England was soooo fvcking fugly compared to the girls that watch UFC in the states, it was not even funny. A bunch of fatties is all I saw.

Actually, there are quite a few good looking women here in Kentucky believe it or not. Not in the eastern part of Kentucky, because that is where the hillbillies live, but in the central part of Kentucky around Lexington, there are lots of hotties.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Sometimes I laugh at you boys...AND...once in a while I will actually feel for some of you. Seriously, Babnik has got to be hurting. From Odessa to America. That just sucks. That isn't even funny. Babnik knows. You boys don't. It is called ignorance. If I sent any of you to Odessa you would probably panic and come back home. It is just odd to be the hunted rather than the hunter. Why God made it so that the most beautiful girls on this planet are among the most needy is beyond me.

Other great towns (for girls and having fun) that I have been to...St. Petersburg, Kiev, Riga, Vilnius, Parnu, Kaunas, Klaipeda, Jelgava, and Tallinn. I am trying to figure out how to get to Minsk. I am thinking about using Vilnius as a launching point. A simple bus ride from Vilnius to Minsk (if they let me in). Belarus is still a bit closed. If you know a bit of Russian you can do fine in any of the above towns. Even if it isn't the main language. My Russian is pretty retarded. I have a hard time with cases (endings on nouns and adjectives). That is so foreign to those of us from Western countries. Believe it or not, my Lithuanian is pretty good. I know three very friendly girls from there who are amazing when it comes to helping me with anything I need. They send me page after page of help via email. They are simply golden (just like the color of their hair :p ).

Seriously, America really does suck for girls. Looks, style, and attitude. They are losers in each of those categories. Sad, because at one time American girls were actually decent. There is a reason the DJ stuff is so popular with you boys. It shouldn't be. You should be able to just talk to a girl that you like and she should give you a chance. This is how it is in many places. The towns I listed above are a bit different though. The girls there are almost always the ones who want to spend time with me. Believe it or not, I have NEVER been turned down by a girl in those places. In America it is terrifying to just approach a chub. They give off very bad vibes. Plus, American chubs can be cruel. The way they laugh at guys and why on earth are they so loud?
 
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@Sparky - Your are dead right in every single word you wrote. Absolutely agreeing with you. I´m an expat living in Russia. PYssywise, I don´t know how I ever could live again in the west.. I would get terminally depressive after a day or so. Seriously.
 
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Oh, an expat. Yes, the whole expat thing for Russia has been covered very well by the "Exile". Great book that you can get at amazon.com. The website is pretty decent as well. They do the best job of actually covering what is going on down on the ground. A classic was the famous "Me and My Murse". Spending time in the region you will get it. Yes, I bought a murse myself :moon: .
http://www.exile.ru/downloads/media/me-and-my-murse.mov
The Kvass shot is so classic. Girls are stunned that Kvass isn't as common as Coke in America. "I thought it was in all world," is a common remark I get.

Pretty much all of the former Soviet Union is outstanding when it comes to girls and adventure. It definitely gives you confidence. Like I said, before I went I was a wreck. I was terrified when I was around girls. I thought I wasn't good enough for a pretty girl. The first places I ever went in the region were Riga, Tallin, and Vilnius. I was confused. Girls would actually look at me twice. Kinda like guys do in America when they see something that isn't fat. I thought I must really look screwed up to them. I was actually feeling extremely low by the time I left to go back home. It wasn't until months later (and a return trip) that I realized they were checking me out!! I didn't realize that I could actually go up to one of those girls and she would talk to me. She might even want to talk to me.

I still spend way too much time away from the region. Luckily, I am pretty close to securing a nice westernized apartment in the region. As I have said before. The region is my crack cocaine. Seriously. It will be my mental downfall.
 
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