"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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when to go in for the kiss?

kevin1198

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well, i've been applying the DJ principles in life, so basically i've just been enjoying life and doing what i like to do.
well, let me say, the girls really do come to you!
a HB8 randomly added me on myspace, she sent me all these messages saying she wanted to meet me at the movies, and she wanted to get to know me, i can already guess where the interest level is.
so now she doesnt have a boyfriend, and she wants me to chill with her at the movies. (no she is not a rapist guys:p )

i figured since the interest level seemed high, if i should go in for the kiss?
and what are some good ways to sneak some kino in while watching the movie?

P.S.
My conversational skills have improved dramatically, but after a good bit of talking, the conversation just runs dry, how do i keep up the fun, interesting conversations?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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thedoc

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Did you get her number?

If not then get it and if she says no cancel on her. Could easily be some creep or even just a prank.
 

kevin1198

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yea i got the number, i was thinking the same thing at first.
 
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