When to contact for a 2nd date

[bootmeup]

I met a girl from craigslist. Blind date, but she turned to be very nice. Attractive, and we have some stuff in common.

I believe she liked me because many times she reached out to touch me, smiled alot, laughed at my humor, and she said I said some deep stuff and so on.

The date started at a cafe, progressed to a walk about the area, then a tour of my parents house (stay there when they are out of town). At one point we ended up the bed, but because this is someone I would be interested in seeing more then a few times, I decided not to go for it.

She called me darling, and honey a few times and so on. We parted with me saying I would contact her within a few days to setup another date.

Should I send her a follow up email saying I enjoyed our time together and will contact her next week, or should I just wait a few days to contact her.

WHEN IS THE RIGHT TIME TO CONTACT FOR THE NEXT DATE - I need some feed back.

Thanks.

Also I am dating another women and other women right two. What do you think about dating multiple women at the same time, the forum in general seems to thinks its ok until you commit to one of them.

 

[516]

Its not a big deal really. Just call her a few days after, whenever it is convenient for you. And yes, the general consensus of this forum I believe is to go out w/ multiple women to avoid "one-itis", and to avoid putting all your eggs in one basket, as well as to give you practice and added desirability. Even when you commit to one, you should still have backups, so if something gets fukked up, you wont have to look far or start all over again.

 

[xblitz44x]

You should have taken her to bed if you wanted to but that shouldn't matter too much. Call her whenever you feel like it. Don't waste your or her time on those "I had a great time" e-mails. The fact that you're asking her out again will let her know that. Call her in a few days, tomorrow, today, whenever you feel like it and ask her when she is free again. I'm not sure why you'd have to ask advice on this. This isn't that big'a deal. Relax.

 

[chlywly]

Bed thing is not a big deal; theres always time for sex... umm just call her in a few days, that simple.. Don't send any e-mails.

 

[So pimp its scary]

I'm pretty sure that the general consensus will be anything other then the day after your date.

When your dating multiple women, it makes it easier to not call the next day and all that, because you just set something up with the next girl on the list. Or cycle them suiting your own preference.

The really hard part for me was keeping track of which one really likes dogs, which one goes snowboarding twice a year, etc. You know, all the little details about each individual. I've yet to make a 'mistake' in front of any of them... but sometimes before a date I would have to take a moment to think of the details of the person I was about to go out with (I was seeing 5 women fairly regularily at that point).

 

[516]

SoPimp-- What I do sometimes is I make myslf little voice memos on my cell phone. I will record the girl's name, town, a few identifying characteristics, presumed IL, etc. This helps me keep track.