When she starts crawling back...?

[Gameness]

Lets say you meet a girl, she has average interest level, you date and fool around a couple of times. I gave her 2 shots at dating me again but she came with 'maybe' suggestions and I cant settle for anything less than determined dates. We were supposed to meet tonight but "everything got late" and she is still at another town with her girlfriend. I dont give a s**t if she is shopping or sucking a c**k but I get angry when someone disrespects a meeting/date.

So she is now in isolation, she will call me withing 3 days I am sure. I have no idea if I should reject her completely though or give her another shot? How do you deal with them when they come crawling back after you have employed the 2 strikes rule?

 

[Joe Stud]

Each situation needs to be judged on its own merit. If shes hot, and now chasing you, why not give her another shot. if she's "crawling back"... there is a hint of obligation on her part, in which a good DJ will capitalize upon.

Look at this comparison: Say you are a salesman. And a person you have cultivated for a sale backs out. Some people would say to drop that prospect completely... spend your time cold-calling on new prospects. I say I must agree to an extent, but also why not take another shot at the one you have already cultivated. Theres a good chance that they will come through this time. As long as shes approaching you for another chance, use it. it's still time better spent than cold-calling. What do you have to lose? a few hours of your time? Know when the situation is aligned in your favor, and ripe for the taking.

 

[Gameness]

Each situation needs to be judged on its own merit. If shes hot, and now chasing you, why not give her another shot. if she's "crawling back"... there is a hint of obligation on her part, in which a good DJ will capitalize upon.

Look at this comparison: Say you are a salesman. And a person you have cultivated for a sale backs out. Some people would say to drop that prospect completely... spend your time cold-calling on new prospects. I say I must agree to an extent, but also why not take another shot at the one you have already cultivated. Theres a good chance that they will come through this time. As long as shes approaching you for another chance, use it. it's still time better spent than cold-calling. What do you have to lose? a few hours of your time? Know when the situation is aligned in your favor, and ripe for the taking.

I can relate to this since I was in sales before. She actually called me tonight some hour after I made this thread. She might have called because she wanted to make sure I wasn't mad, we talked for approximately 35-40 minutes. This is a big no no I know...but she was spilling her heart out about very private stuff not even her best friends knows, so I couldn't really hang up without being rude. Next time I see her I will make it clear that I am not a girlfriend though, she makes out with me, she better try to **** with me.
I think I need to emphasize on being more of a challenge, since looks/confidence/self control is all good. Maybe backpedal a bit and let her chase me more you know what im saying?