"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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When She Doesn't Like You...

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I don't really have the same scenario because i didn't ask the girl out but girl in my social circle used to ignore me, barely ever say hi. I was just as good friends with her friends as she was. This girl is a super b1tch and has no class but i decide just to be nice and not take it personally until one day she gets in my face.

I spoke to her in a calm voice the whole entire time while she was screaming her lungs out.

AAA: do you have a problem?
HBCrazy: wtf did you say to me?
AAA: *****, do you have a problem.

she starts going crazy screaming at me and i ask her what she's going to do about it. She tells me she's going to fvck me up.

AAA: I guarantee you not one person here is going to stand up for you, and anyone that does I will put them down.

She really want to fight me so i offered to allow her to hit me 10 times and i told her I'd only hit her once to be fair. I also told her after my punch, she would not get up. I knew she didn't have the balls to hit me. She, ended up getting in my face seeing if i'd flinch but i didn't. My friends dragged her away and told her to calm down. She later on apologized and now we're good friends.

It's all about respect. Some girls just lose respect in people at certain times and feel like they can treat people like sh1t.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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