When one vagina closes, another one will open

[skinnyguy]

In life, you'll get rejected by women but most likely after you get rejected you'll get a "yes". If you fixate on the rejection, you potentially close the door to other women who will say yes. The ironic part of game is that if you get turned down you have to work even harder but most guys will just give up.

This applies to business as well. I can't tell you how many times I've gotten fired, just to get another job with better pay, better benefits, and better coworkers. There were multiple times in my life that I thought life was over because of a rejection/job loss but it turns out that I actually needed to go through that in order to become more resilient.

The tricky part is that sometimes you can't really see why something is happening. You have to push through but that's when your life overall gets better because you start to realize that you're unstoppable and that nothing can really ruin you. Nowdays, I'm still getting turned down by women every day but my SMV just keeps getting higher because of how much work I put in, and the rejections don't affect me nearly as much as they used to.

Some guys on here who are in their 20's are posting about how their life sucks, and believe me I've been there. My entire 20's sucked. But you're gonna be so much wiser when you're older and you'll APPRECIATE everything you have. If I didn't go through so much difficulty when I was younger, I wouldn't appreciate where I'm at right now.

Some of you know that I was kind of a race troll when I first joined this site. It was a bad time in my life. Struggling with lots of things. But I got over it. Now, I feel like I'm in control of my own destiny. I know I need to put in the work in the gym and at the office. I know that I am no victim, in fact I'm extremely fortunate and I have lots of tools to succeed.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

The tricky part is that sometimes you can't really see why something is happening.

This is very prophetic. There is always a reason. Often it's staring us right in the face, and we are in denial about it.

For me, the big thing is booze. I can't really recall how many times my life, or aspects thereof, has been turned sideways results my drinking to much. It has to happen so many times for us to realise it though. I am one of the fortunate ones who has really analysed what has been going on and recognised the major problem.

Drink --> Personal failures --> Drink --> More failure --> More Drink.

There is always a reason, which cascades into other reasons. Understanding and acting upon it is the purest form of honesty; honesty with one's self.

 

[Bingo-Player]

In life, you'll get rejected by women but most likely after you get rejected you'll get a "yes". If you fixate on the rejection, you potentially close the door to other women who will say yes. The ironic part of game is that if you get turned down you have to work even harder but most guys will just give up.

This applies to business as well. I can't tell you how many times I've gotten fired, just to get another job with better pay, better benefits, and better coworkers. There were multiple times in my life that I thought life was over because of a rejection/job loss but it turns out that I actually needed to go through that in order to become more resilient.

The tricky part is that sometimes you can't really see why something is happening. You have to push through but that's when your life overall gets better because you start to realize that you're unstoppable and that nothing can really ruin you. Nowdays, I'm still getting turned down by women every day but my SMV just keeps getting higher because of how much work I put in, and the rejections don't affect me nearly as much as they used to.

Some guys on here who are in their 20's are posting about how their life sucks, and believe me I've been there. My entire 20's sucked. But you're gonna be so much wiser when you're older and you'll APPRECIATE everything you have. If I didn't go through so much difficulty when I was younger, I wouldn't appreciate where I'm at right now.

Some of you know that I was kind of a race troll when I first joined this site. It was a bad time in my life. Struggling with lots of things. But I got over it. Now, I feel like I'm in control of my own destiny. I know I need to put in the work in the gym and at the office. I know that I am no victim, in fact I'm extremely fortunate and I have lots of tools to succeed.

good post

personally I have come to enjoy adversity, and by god have I had it in bucket loads over the last couple years

financially , romantically , health issues, work issues, family issues you name it I've dealt with it and im only 24 lol

but now I feel so much wiser and im so self sufficient now I feel virtually nothing could harm me

women are of no bother to me anymore .......I know if I want sex I can get it at will I've slept with enough over the years to prove that , but life isn't all about just having sex with random strangers its pleasurable but ultimately unfulfilling

no the challenge now is too find one that isn't completely psychotic / delusional