When it's time to dump her and get a new girl.

[froznie]

The problem I've been having recently with my girl is... she's just not that horny anymore.

I've been with this girl for about two and a half years now. She's very good looking, has a decent body, nice boobs... the whole package. The first six months were awesome. She wanted sex all the time, we were doing it 4-5 times a week and it still wasn't enough for her she wanted it every day, sometimes more than once a day.

Then after we had been together for six months I started having a busier schedule at work and I had less time to see her, and often when I got back home from work and she'd come over to my place I was just too tired and stressed out by work to do anything. Then after a while I was in a job with less grueling hours and I had more time to spend with her.

But then it just seemed like gradually she wanted it less and less. In the past months it's been like, she was super horny one day and we'd have some great sex, but then if we did anything else for the rest of the week she just wasn't into it anymore and she just laid there and did nothing. Then she told me that once she has an orgasm she's satisfied and it takes her at least a week to be able to do anything more.

So for a while now we've only really had anything good like once a month max, and after that she just stops being horny and she doesn't want anything. Even the once a week or so that we end up doing it it feels she just doesn't really want it and doesn't even smile anymore. I mean she used to be crazy every single day I could barely keep up with her. Then she's like saying stuff like she's a girl and girls aren't as horny as guys, blablabla.

So, what do you guys think about this? My take on it is that she's just not that attracted to me anymore. Anyway I'm no longer satisfied physically with that relationship and I feel like I want to end it because I'm not getting enough. But the thing is, back when we were first together it was some of the best sex I ever had and I was fed, I was getting even more than I wanted.

Any advice? I'd like to get back to what it used to be, but I think it's just best to just start over with someone else.

 

[expos]

The honeymoon period is over, sadly.

What do you look like? Be honest, are you attractive? Are you in good shape? Age?

The trick now is getting another a girl to verify that you are good looking and have her make a move on you. That will keep your girl on her toes.

Or, how about do this. Here's a test. Schedule a romantic dinner for this weekend at a really good restaurant. Insist that she dress really pretty and you do the same. If it doesn't lead to sex that night, you have your answer. It might be over.

I would keep one foot out the door if I were you. If the sex is dying now, it's not going to get any better - trust me.

The honeymoon period can last up to 18 months (scientifically proven) and it might be time to bail.

 

[froznie]

Well I'm a lot better looking than I used to be... I lost 70 pounds since I first met her, I used to be pretty chubby and now I'm at under 10% body fat. So I guess I'm more attractive now when we aren't doing much than I was when we were in the "honeymoon"

Anyway yep I agree I don't think it gets better when it starts dying. **** she even proposed marriage a few months ago in the middle of this sexless rut, and I said I'd think about it. It seems the less she wants sex the more she wants to have kids with me and the more she talks about buying a house together and all that stuff. We never talked about that early on when it was good.

 

[expos]

she even proposed marriage a few months ago in the middle of this sexless rut, and I said I'd think about it. It seems the less she wants sex the more she wants to have kids with me and the more she talks about buying a house together and all that stuff. We never talked about that early on when it was good.

Been there before. RUN THE OTHER WAY.