"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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When is a chick too young

Jaun_Don

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I'm pleased with myself that I didn't try anything on with this 17 year old ( she told me tonight) and I put myself in someone elses shoes, like me if I was a Father and she was my daughter would I honestly see something right about my daughter hanging out with a 32 year old? and I thought of course I wouldn't see a thing right...but you know if it's just a friends thing then that is all good.

Someone mentioned having other prospects?, I'm working on 2 others right now, on another note the 17 year old?...mad cute it's just that I would feel like a sad old man I think...:woo:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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spider_007

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I'm 22 and I have trouble going after 19-20 year old chicks. FOR SOME REASON I FEEL LIKE A PERV TOO. I don't know if it's because I am more mature then woman from 19-30 or because "I THINK" i look older (feeling self concius). I'd say, what ever you feel comforatable with (and as long as it's leagal.)
 

JohnJones

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My recollection from being young enough to date girls like that is that when they are 18-22 they are at their YOUNGEST, so yeah, I sympathize with the pervert comments.

What on earth do you talk about with a 19 yo if you date her?
 
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