When girls say, your soo mean, is that a good thing?

[cyp6]

I have really begun to understand more about women through this web site... also i have been able to raise my social status in school by multiple levels thanks to this site. well I have been studing the DJ method for about two weeks now and am already starting to see some results.. for example... last firday a girl who had been calling me names for a while said i looked very cute, and demanded that i hug her.... thanks D.J bible.. small steps lead to big sucesses with women..

ok Here is the question i have.


Lately i have been being cooky and funny and mean to girls and igonoring them and only talking to them if they talk to me and hanging out with the cool kids at my school and wearing the nices cloths I could afford and driving a nice car too.... well as havent seen these girls at school during the summer they dont really noticed how i have changed... the thing is that the girls i have been playing are calling me mean... but i notice they show intrest in me by starting kino first and talking about stupid things just to talk..... but i dont know how far to push whit the mean ness..... IF THEY SAY.. CYP6 YOUR SOO MEAN (SMILE)... IS THAT GOOD? OR BAD..

any advice guys??? what is the balancing between nice and mean? cooky and funny.. its hard to find balenceing spot.. i tend to push it one way or the other..

any thoughts?

 

[cyp6]

oh yea.. iv never been called mean before by girls...

 

[DJohnson]

**** it depends, but generally I would say she likes you, but she does want to change some things about you. In other words she is probably a low self esteem chick who wants to make you into her ideal man.


Conclusion? This really means nothing. It is not good or bad. It just is. The only thing it might say is that you have SOME good qualities she likes, but alot she doesn't.

Now that doesn't matter. You should be whoever you want to be. But at your age level, what she is saying is that you can have her, but you would have to change a little. As far as I am concerned, no woman your age is worth changing your personality over. But your milage may vary. If you have questions, feel free to ask.

 

[jakeyboy]

Originally posted by DJohnson
Conclusion? This really means nothing. It is not good or bad. It just is. The only thing it might say is that you have SOME good qualities she likes, but alot she doesn't.

i agree that it isn't necessarily good or bad, it just is. but i dont agree it might say you've got some good qualities she likes but a lot she doesn't. that's bullshyte.

you're reading too much into her words.

she doesn't mean anything. seriously.

i'm always playful with the girls.

scenario at a crowded diner

girl: there are no seats.

me: (jokingly) why don't you kick some old lady off her stool then we'll have seats.

girl: (laughs) stop being so mean.

IT DOESN'T MEAN ANYTHING. really.

 

[illmatic20]

Look, just trust in what I say to be the truth. Words mean little, next time look into her actions (body language and expressions). If she says your mean playfully that means good and she flirting with you. If she says your mean and gives you a cold stare then she angry and thinks your an ass. It all has to do with the way she treating you. Look to see if she treats other guys the same also. Just observe her carefully.

 

[naoi deag se deag]

Unless you really are mean, it's probably not a bad thing. Brush it off with something like "I treat you like a princess" or "yeah, well..."

All I know is, from now on I'm gonna be "cooky and funny" too.

 

[Lost In Translation]

When girls say, your soo mean, is that a good thing?

YES


Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

Quote: Pook
“Many girls merely upgrade their boyfriends and never become single “

" stop being insecure " i hate that saying. it's a cop out for not having enough balls to confront a woman about what she is doing THAT IS WRONG or potentially damaging to a long term relationship. – Lost In Translation

 

[h2o]

the last few girls that have said to me "you're so mean" have been girls that liked me, and the last two i ended up doing some stuff with. actually, i can honestly say i've never heard that from a girl that didn't like me. i don't get it often, it seems like i only get it when i'm having fun being flirtatious with a girl...idk, imo it's a good thing

 

[Panther]

Heheh this is funny, i just mentioned the "you're soo mean" line in my reply in
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=84022

In short, if they go "Oh, you're so meeeean!" with a smile, and often also kino u at that time, its a GREAT thing. Means u're doing the c+f push/pull stuff properly.

ThePanther