"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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When Do You Contact After Sex?

CaConfused

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Ok guys, after studying this forum, I got this 29-yr old girl into bed on date 2

The sex was just OK (she didn't come) and when we were cuddling a bit I asked her. "What are you thinking about?"

So I left at midnight. We made out before I took off.

She replied "how hard it is to get to sleep with a stranger in my bed" (we were at her place)

My question: when and how do I contact her?

Also: she knows I'm going to Chicago on business for the week.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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CaConfused

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CaConfused said:
Ok guys, after studying this forum, I got this 29-yr old girl into bed on date 2

The sex was just OK (she didn't come) and when we were cuddling a bit I asked her. "What are you thinking about?"

So I left at midnight. We made out before I took off.

She replied "how hard it is to get to sleep with a stranger in my bed" (we were at her place)

My question: when and how do I contact her?

Also: she knows I'm going to Chicago on business for the week.
Anyone? (Bump)
 

CaConfused

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CaConfused said:
Ok guys, after studying this forum, I got this 29-yr old girl into bed on date 2

The sex was just OK (she didn't come) and when we were cuddling a bit I asked her. "What are you thinking about?"

So I left at midnight. We made out before I took off.

She replied "how hard it is to get to sleep with a stranger in my bed" (we were at her place)

My question: when and how do I contact her?

Also: she knows I'm going to Chicago on business for the week.
Anyone? (Bump)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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