When a school dance is appoaching, your stock rises

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Bible_Belt

Master Don Juan

Sep 26, 2006

Our school formal dance is coming up, and I love this time of year. It is a giant blow to a woman's sense of social value if she does not have a date to the big dance. Whatever girls like you will take their flirting to a higher level. They get jealous and competetive toward other women and desperate for the validation of having secured a date. If you have a formal event approaching and a girl starts flirting with you or asking if you are going (in very subtle feminese, of course), then she needs a date.

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.