When a Girl Says You're "Mysterious"?

[~attrACTION~]

Just wondering what the consensus is on this. Is it a good thing if she calls you mysterious? Like several times, on various occasions. Such as when you run into her at the bookstore, she says, "oh look, it's mysterious ___" in a mocking sort of tone, like it's my nickname or something.

I feel like it's because I don't talk that much with everyone I'm acquainted with. Like if I study with someone at school, I won't talk much about personal stuff and keep it strictly about studies. I don't talk much about myself. In fact, if a girl asks, I say something and just flip the script on her. It's just habit.

I know it's good to be mysterious, but do girls actually call you that? And is it a compliment or are they trying to tell you to open up? Not that I really care about this girl, but in general, I think maybe I keep too much to myself. But this is really the first time that someone has called me mysterious. Any tips on how I can be not-mysterious?

 

[~attrACTION~]

being mysterious is a good thing.

The situation you listed is not a BAD thing or a GOOD thing.

If being "mysterious" is who you "really are"..then stick with it. That's your own style and stick to it.

Mystery is a good thing.

Yeah, but does anyone actually call people that? I've just never heard that before, so I felt like it's a bad thing. It is the way I am, but I want to try and not be like that.

 

[blackbelt2k]

a real DJ would reply..."cause i am the batman b$tch"...lol....j\p

 

[Raikojo17]

mystery is great.

but too much mystery is a bad thing. she could be telling you because she likes it.

but you dont wanna be too mysterious, because after a while it will just give the woman the impression that she knows nothing about you, and there for doesnt know you at all and view you as a complete stranger.

not good, because then she might not want to keep talking to someone she doesnt know.

be a mystery at first, but gradually open up more and more.

 

[oakraiderz2]

Yea, ive gotten that a few times before. I like it when girls say that about me, it makes things interesting. I have a shirt that says mystery and has a broken heart on the sleave...it adds to the persona.