"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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When a girl says she wants to be treated like a lady

Crissco

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Zarky said:
It means "I'm trying to call the shots here."
I thought that too. She was telling me what her father was like, even though she has an amazing relationship with her parents, her father is very relaxed and basically her mother is in control. She told she she wants someone like her father.

I am the total opposite of that. Im guessing she doesnt know what she wants.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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f283000

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backbreaker said:
again with the coming here asking for advice, having it freaking nailed in the first response, and waiting utnil one person says something you want to hear and you go wit that

a freaking 17 year old french girl nailed it in the first post.s he is a ****ing idiot (the girl not BBBardot)
The game sorts guys like this out don't worry. Some guys just have to either fail with women constantly or get destroyed by women in order to finally realize "ok what i'm doing is wrong i'm just going to do what these guys say."

Some come to sosuave to improve, some come for the entertainment, and some come to ask for advice only to ignore it and go for what they want to hear, only to get their butts kicked by the game until they finally humble down and listen.
 
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