"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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When a girl says she likes you..

carlitos

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but you still sense that she is somewhat playing games..what does it really mean?
-what kind of tests could be behind it?
-maybe she's just shy? if so how would i make her comfortable?

and how should i approach the situation? do i talk about it with her and ask her out, or keep playing the mystery? or somehow escalate without mentioning anything?

now what if its kind of a long distance thing, you guys met a few times but never got to the point of physical escalation or even make out but most of the time you guys stayed in touch through msn?

i know there are many possibilities to this situation..and chances are that she's just intimidated thats all...but sharing any past experiences or advice would be appreciated
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Stop over thinking this....
 
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