"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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when a girl makes fun of you...?

sinner

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Fstly, im a good looking (but short), sorta well off guy. But still i have no luck with girls(Im what you people call an AFC). Girls keep saying im cute.. but i dont really get that many dates. I read many articles on this site & forum and im trying to change. One thing that mindfux me is that girls keep walking all over me or using me. My question is, When a girl makes fun of me (playful fun, nothing insulting) how should i respond ?? do i get pissed and yell at her ?? do i stay calm and take it ?? or is it wussy to stay calm ?? All advice and suggestions are welcome
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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t00dumb

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being pissed and yelling tells the girl you have no control of what she's saying to you and probably thinks you're a dork that can't defend himself. usually when a girl makes fun of me, it means they like me haha.
 

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u flirt back...Good lord, you know how to flirt right? Do a search on flirting...keep readin stuff in the bible, but also the HS bible...

Good Luck and welcome to sosuave
 

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DONT SAY SHES FAT! THATS A DONT

made this mistake myself.

her: (playful comment) cant even remember it hehe
me: its ok i'll just call you fat and your lifes over

she began to cry :( one of the worst mistakes of my life i think
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by Ratman
DONT SAY SHES FAT! THATS A DONT

made this mistake myself.

her: (playful comment) cant even remember it hehe
me: its ok i'll just call you fat and your lifes over

she began to cry :( one of the worst mistakes of my life i think
YES
its wierd. pregnant works fine:)
 

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Originally posted by Ratman
DONT SAY SHES FAT! THATS A DONT

made this mistake myself.

her: (playful comment) cant even remember it hehe
me: its ok i'll just call you fat and your lifes over

she began to cry :( one of the worst mistakes of my life i think
dude... same thing happened to me.. and this girl cried throughout the night!
 

sinner

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Originally posted by Microphone Fiend
u flirt back...Good lord, you know how to flirt right? Do a search on flirting...keep readin stuff in the bible, but also the HS bible...

Good Luck and welcome to sosuave
thanks! ya im learning and trying to flirt... these forums rock.. full of uselfull stuff.. but what does it mean when the girls tease you(not insult)?? do they do it generally or what?
 

Climax

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teasing isn't always bad...

Originally posted by sinner
thanks! ya im learning and trying to flirt... these forums rock.. full of uselfull stuff.. but what does it mean when the girls tease you(not insult)?? do they do it generally or what?
They are looking for your attention.


Laterz...
 
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