"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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When a girl doesn’t respect that your busy

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This girl I started casually seeing blows my phone up constantly. I like her so it doesn’t bother me but sometimes she likes to have these deep conversations and talk about her problems through texts.

I’m busy as **** with my businsss I don’t watch tv **** I barely have 45 minutes to work out for myself....**** even when I did work out yesterday she’s FaceTiming me. It’s still early into dating her and I like her but I don’t have the time to play therapist. How do I tell her this? It’s too early for me to be flat out blunt with her. She also seems to not be that interested in my life or my own goals/hobbies.

Can you really lose a chick being too busy pursuing money? I feel like it’s beta to be at a woman’s call unless it’s to bang her. She also doesn’t have a lot of female friends to talk about her issues with her. I feel like these are things she needs to talk to her girlfriends about and she doesn’t really have them
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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you know the marvelous thing about texts? you don't need to read right on that time, also make a point of when you go to work out don't take your cellphone, also make it so you only answer at the same time everyday, like end of work shift or during lunch, other times you are busy, and don't fall for I need to tell her, or if could be important, important things are not done by text
 
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