"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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whats your mentality going into a party/club?

garruk

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do you go in with the goal of a fvcking a girl by the end of night?

or do you go in with the intent to have fun and just let it play out?


on one hand, i feel like having a goal (even in other facets of life) keeps you focused and you're more likely to succeed. on the other hand, i feel like it might make you too desperate or somehting.


whats your mentality going into a party?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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garruk

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oops did not mean to repost, my computer was just acting up... how do i delete a thread?
 

joe henny

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I go in with a minimum goal of three numbers, and I always reach that goal ; )
 
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