"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Whats your first thought at an HB?

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Just wondering what peeps first thought is, when they see a babydoll they're attracted too.

And not the unconcious thought... like "DAMNN!!!!!!!!" lol

The concious DJ thought, you want her to sample.
(but it has to be your real thought in the field, that you throw. Not some clever sh!t your thinking up here... thats DJB Technically Approved)

Lets hear it playaz'
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I classy women in two categories as soon as I see them,Naturally Beautiful & Fake.

If they have that natural beauty I approach and at least meet them. If they are fake,alot of makeup,fat chick wearing skimpy clothes, I automatically bump them in the friends category.
 

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*I notice HB*

I thinks, Cute, or not Cute?
-If Cute, is she sexy?
-If not cute, debate how bad.
--If sexy and cute, study
--If not sexy, but cute, study
---Approach.
 

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First thing? If she smokes.I'm a smoker and like girls that smoke better :D
 

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Hahahaa... I've never heard any1 prefer smokers.

But anyways... interesting to hear the responses.
Reason I asked is... people can sense others thoughts/vibe.

And I was wondering if any of you, where taking it to the subtle levels of thought, when first spying an HB. Like... I often find myself sort of telepathically negging a chick, with a thought... before I approach. So when I do approach... she already knows that she's lucky to even get a hello. The thing bout this is... because it already casts sort of a d!ck vibe, when you approach and come w. some genuine coolness, it makes the the initial impression of the approach as well as you... a move valuable thing. Not so congruent w. the first mental impression, you sent her.

Was just wondering if any1 else was playing their first card on these levels, and what thought they would telegraph to the bunny, as their first mental impression.

Reason I started ignowledging these levels... Is because I started to notice, when I would see a bangin honey, I would think "DAAMMMNNNNN!" And surely that didn't help me. It was if they could hear my fvckin thought, lol. So I started to conciously take control of this first thought, to my DJ benefit.

Any other opinions... or comments, with this said?
Alls welcome....... lets hear it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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GloriouslyInsane

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Well how you think will impact your body language.I can relate a bit to what you're saying though,i can read people from their actions and respond to them with my own,and i mean by very subtle,unnoticeable things.This helps alot in situations like a club and the like because hearing is "impaired".Now if you're talking about somekind of a psychic telepathic level i can't add anything cause i really don't believe in that stuff.
 
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