"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What's up with women, sometimes I just don't understand them

Kal0051

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My god, I don't understand women at all. Got one of my girl friends calling me the other night, I didn't feel like talking at the time (I was sleeping) so I told her I'd call her the next day. She tries calling me again and I just send her to vmail. Tried calling her a few times since then and she doesn't answer or get back to me. And here I though that what she wanted to talk about was important. Well I guess it wasn't or I've pissed her off (most likely the second one). ****, if I knew this would happen I would have just talked to her when she wanted. Don't really have a question, just venting. :cuss:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Let me guess... is it the same chick with a BF you've been posting about for the last two months, yet refuse to admit you have oneitis for?
 

Kal0051

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horaholic said:
Let me guess... is it the same chick with a BF you've been posting about for the last two months, yet refuse to admit you have oneitis for?
nope, this is just one of my friends who I've known for years.
 
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