"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Whats up with this girl???

MaDMikE

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Aight before i get to the story i just wanna let ppl know ive been searching and reading some stuff for a few days now and this is my first post...now for the story.

ok when i first started working at my old job i got to know this one girl well and we chilled at her house one night and everything went cool. At the end of the night i gave her a little kiss and everything seemed fine until the next day at work. Aight now the next day at work she was acting like she didnt want nothin to do with me. I asked her what the prob was and she said that we should just be friends. But the thing that confuses me is that she was telling ppl how she had a good time with me and how happy she was that we hung out:confused: So after all this i just said f it ill try and forget about her.

Fast Forward about 6 months

Aight now its New Years eve and both of us are at one of our co-workers parties. All i know that night is that i was drunk off my ass and she was somewhat drunk to. A few times during the night she was saying how she wanted to have sex with me and how she wanted my d*ck out loud:D and her friend also pulled me aside and said she was telling her all this stuff to. I thought i was def gonna get some this night, not the case:mad: . I finally got some alone time with her on the couch and i attempted kino, it actually worked well for a little while. We touched eachother a lil and she sat on my lap for a few mins. I then told her that i wanted to kiss her which we did for a sec but then after that she said she was drunk and couldnt do it:confused:

idk what she is thinking at all..i just wanna know if the truth comes out when ur drunk, im wondering if maybe she really does want to f*ck when shes sober or was she just horny cause shes drunk?

i cant read this girl at all. so what u guys think?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LikRetsam

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Top right, The DJ Bible.
 

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my opinion:
she was drunk ----so shes horny
 
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