"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

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She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

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Whats the proper compromise between strength and endurance?

Ricky

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First I was a track athlete, and did little lifting.

Then: Started lifting

After lifting for 10 years but ignoring cardio for many of those years, I have decided to do both now.

What would the best compromise between lifting and doing cardio be?

I want to be very strong and built but I also don't want to suck wind when I play sports, or even run a 5-K with a couple of the hot girls I know that run.

So how have you achieved the best compromise?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Well when you want to gain muscle, you have to feed your body a little more calories than your Daily Caloric Requirement. These extra calories (CARBOHYDRATES) go to the generation of new muscle. Protein just aids in the rebuilding and healing process. When you do cardio, you burn off calories.

So I would do cardio on the off days when you are not working out--at least 20 minutes. Just make sure you eat enough food to make up for the loss of calories. Cardio is healty for your body.
 

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I have long been skeptical of the whole burning up muscle deal. I guess I became more skeptical after "bulking" and obtaining this small but unpleasant beer belly.

If I can't burn off this small beer belly after hours of working out, I'm not too concerned about losing muscle either!

My hopes are that I have high cardiovascular fitness and high strength, not unlike a decathlon athlete would have to have.

I've seen way to many "bodybuilders" that huff and puff up the stairs!
 

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Originally posted by Ricky
If I can't burn off this small beer belly after hours of working out, I'm not too concerned about losing muscle either!
"Hours of working out" or hours of cardio? Cardio is better at burning calories than lifting weights.
 

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yeah, that huffing and puffing is evident when they're at like... 2-3% bodyfat. You feel like absolute hell when you're that low.

Could be water retention.

You can be 210lbs and still have a way better than average cardio system - just eat a bit more to compensate what the cardio burns :)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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