What's the maximum n-count you would consider in a woman for a serious LTR?

[bensimsJYG]

As a college student, it feels that all the girls in my age group are shallow and bounce around from guy to guy. This is good for me, as it makes it easier to spin plates, have one night stands, and practice abundance mentality. However, it makes me discouraged to any idea of a serious LTR down the road as all of these girls are racking up crazy n-counts before they even graduate college.

How strict are you guys with n-counts for an LTR? Since I'm still in college, I probably won't be in an actual, serious LTR for a very long time, but am curious to see what a good cutoff n-count would be. Women are becoming much more promiscuous by the year, so I don't know how one would even find a good women worthy of an LTR (can't even speak about marriage with the divorce rates nowadays).

 

[devilkingx2]

N-count isn't important.

A) it can't be verified
B) she could easily lie about it and probably is
C) there are a lot more factors to take into consideration

if she isn't going to cheat on you, isn't going to give you a disease, and isn't going to pretend to suddenly be an innocent virgin to cheat you out of good sex, then her N-count doesn't matter

however lots of red flags can lead to high numbers, her having severe daddy issues is the sickness, and the number is a symptom for example. so make sure you've got your eye on what matters.

i won't lie to you and say that there aren't numerous personality/mental issues a girl could have that would lead to a high number, but i also won't lie to you and say that just because she makes you wait til date 10 means that she's a good girl.

also don't forget to have a realistic expectation of what a high or low number is. if the girl is like 25 expecting her to have a number less than 2 is unrealistic. but if the girl is like 18, her having a number over 2-3 is where things get high

 

[Mr. Kalikoat]

I dont care about n-count much either. As long as hers isnt almost double of mine you wont hear me complain.

What matters more is her attitude towards sex, relationships, commitment and whether she wants children or not.