"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

What's the deal with this...............?

H

HighResurrection

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 28, 2011
Messages
90
Reaction score
2
So I just finished this date with this girl and the second time I tried to kiss close her. She tells me that's she has a boyfriend and it would be wrong.

She told me she had a boyfriend before but I didn't believe her.

Then her boyfriend calls, and she has me talk to him. So I tell him I'm taking a walk.

What's going on here?

How short can a date be?

I like women even more so when they put out.

2 hr is to long.

Do you have to walk your date home?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

I

Iceberg

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 19, 2002
Messages
3,110
Reaction score
136
Age
45
Location
Manhattan, NY
Man, take your adderol and post again. You're all over the place.

The chick has you go on two dates with her, and proceeds to deny your kiss AND makes you talk to her BF. So first I wonder if you made it clear that this was a date. And either way, this girl is weird and I don't like her. Why would any normal person have you talk to her boyfriend...

Your other questions are weird as sh*t, so I'm just gonna pretend I didn't see them.
 
M

MartyMcFly

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 17, 2011
Messages
111
Reaction score
2
Location
St. Louis
I just see a bf as another barrier.

If she's into you, a boyfriend doesn't matter. If you played your cards right I bet you wouldn't have gotten shot down. I'm willing to bet you went in for the kiss at the WRONG time.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top