"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Tazman

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Do you know how creepy it is for you to still be bothering this girl after all you've been through with her? It's one of those situations you leave behind FOR GOOD! You look like a pathetic loser still trying to win her affections (whether friendly or romantic) and she absolutely does not like you AT ALL! Simply accept the fact that this girl isn't interested in being friendly with you and realize you need to forget her COMPLETELY!

"It's like you expect that you can do what you want and say a few sorry's and then it's all good

It's not, this is the last time, I don't want to hear from you anymore...last time for real"
My god man, when are you going to accept reality and move on? Not only do you kill your own self-esteem, but you look like a desperate stalker. It doesn't matter if you have another girl, LEAVE THIS ONE ALONE, SHE WANTS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Jaun_Don

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I actually got the best advice that made me see sense of another board I have included it.

You have to be strong, seriously,because she's bullying you...maybe you like your women mean, but is it really worth it? do you know your worth, because if you don't...you will continue to attract women or girls like this, it won't change until YOU change.....

many good girls get slapped around with jerks, if you are a good guy, why not be a super hero to a good girl and kick this female dog to the curve...what I mean by that is just ignore her and when you see her, look at her worse feature (she has one, everyone does) and magnify it in your mind, think of it as a video game in your head.....picture her as the dog she is and know that you are valuable person who deserves a good girl…….this girl/women is demonstrating to you her worth, she’s not demonstrating your worth but she’s demonstrating her own worth….you know that dogs piss anywhere and have little respect for property or humans (unless they are trained), so, unless you are a male dog, why are you bothering with her? She's telling you her worth by how she's treating you, she’s saying that she doesn’t value humans, so why do you feel like you have to show her you are valuable, you know you are valuable, she doesn’t because she isn’t able to discern good from bad, that’s why she’s treating a good person badly….

If you are the good guy you say you are, then you should be able to figure out that only a good girl deserves you...it's not for you to prove to a female dog that you are good because she's a female dog, she doesn't know the difference between gold and pyrite (fools gold), so because she doesn't know how to discern gold from fools gold, you can't give her anything of value because she won't be able to make the distinction....I beat this subject down to a powder...but just want to get this through your head.....respect yourself first and no more throwing pearls to swine. And the inverse holds true for good girls/women.
 
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