Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

Read more...

What's that one online dating site a lot of people use on here?

AlexLefty

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 12, 2010
Messages
755
Reaction score
9
Location
Cali
I know of myyearbook.com
But what's the other one?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

headFirst

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 12, 2012
Messages
186
Reaction score
3
Location
Chicago
okqupid, pof these two are free

match.com, eharmony these two you pay for..

i know there is more but can't think of them.
 

AlexLefty

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 12, 2010
Messages
755
Reaction score
9
Location
Cali
headFirst said:
okqupid, pof these two are free

match.com, eharmony these two you pay for..

i know there is more but can't think of them.
what's pof?
 

cablecow15

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 17, 2005
Messages
651
Reaction score
13
Age
36
Location
Tennessee
My yearbook is actually Meetme now , witch makes it a lil more like a dating site now
 

AlexLefty

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 12, 2010
Messages
755
Reaction score
9
Location
Cali
I blocked it a while back, so i can't get on anymore haha.
But is pof just pof.com?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Top