What's qualifies as being a "late bloomer"?

[Flabbergasped?]

As in losing the V-card. Is it purely age dependent, or based on environment too? I'm 16, still a V, though it's more from refusing to bone anything less than HB 6 (for some reason, my standards shoot up at crunch time). However, I am in college, so in a sense, I'm far behind my peers.

Of course, being 40 (or being Luke [j/k, I love u man]) means being a late bloomer, but is there a general cutoff when I should start crying myself to sleep?

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Losing your virginity isn't going to change your life. Some people place so much importance on having sex that they lose sight of this FACT. When you have sex and go to sleep, do you wake up any different? You still have the same crappy car, the same crappy apartment/residence and the same crappy balance in your bank account. NOTHING has changed.

Don't wait for sex to suddenly "change" you for the better. It won't. You have to change yourself for the better. Sex just tends to come along with that.

 

[spider_007]

^^^once you do it, you get to move on....your more of a man, and no longer fear the pvssy as much....


ya there is a cut-off point....when you turn 24 and still haven't done it.....
hmmmm, my b-day is coming soon:nervous:

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

^^^once you do it, you get to move on....your more of a man, and no longer fear the pvssy as much....


ya there is a cut-off point....when you turn 24 and still haven't done it.....
hmmmm, my b-day is coming soon:nervous:

Ok you're not a real man till you have sex.

That is a self-fulfilling prophecy.

 

[ryannath]

There is no certain cut off age where you should be crying yourself to sleep. I don't know where you live but the average age of ppl in the USA of losing their virginity is 16 yrs 6 months, which also happens to be when most ppl get their drivers license. So you have nothing to worry about.

 

[TruthHurts]

Later bloomer refers to mental or physical development... For example being a bed wetter till your 9 years old... Not getting a beard till your 20's... Late menstral cycle... Not experiencing relationships/love/break up till your 20's

conclusion

2 categories... mental vs physical.. and defined as being behind compared to the average population norm within your environment/ethnic group (as it relates to physical development, such as lack of facial hair growth seen in asian population)

 

[nonchalant]

over 20 and still a virgin is a late bloomer

 

[SikWitIt]

I lost mine at 19 it's not really something i would worry about most people lose it at 18-21. But it's never gonna happen if girl's wont even let you touch them