"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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'*' What's Openers have you had most SUCCESS with?

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Warrior74

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"Hey, I'm Warrior74, and you are?"

Honestly, every girlfriend and most hooks I had in the last 3 years have started like that.
 

Game_going_good

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"Hey, do we know each other?"

"Um, I don't...think so".

"Well, we do from now".

*she laughs and conversation starts*

So on.
 

horaholic

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Openers have nothing to do with success. Besides the fact that you are actually opening, that is. Its all about the attitude behind it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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flint

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This isn't really an opener but I think it might be my favorite number close I ever got.

Walked into an elevator, I hold the door for an HB 9. Our convo went like this:

Flint: What floor?
HB: (Her floor)
Flint: (Presses button) That'll be $5.
HB: (Laughs) Sorry I don't have any cash on me, do you take debit?
Flint: No but I'll take your number.

Idk if that counts as an opening but that's my favorite elevator routine.
 
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