"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What's going through a women's mind/feelings when they "want to be alone"?

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This question can't really be answered in a general sense as all situations and people are different but I was wondering just what exactly is going through a woman's wind when they want to be alone? Some of the situations I've been through and have talked to women about have confused me.
What are they feeling? What are they thinking? Maybe some women can answer this too? Why the need to be alone?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

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The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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lordson

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how should we know?? we're guys!

who knows what their thinking

generally, i reckon it means, that they are upset, and unsure what to do at the present time. so they need time to chill out, space out, and think about stuff

its not good to approach a women in this state, and just best to avoid them until they're ready

thats my take on it, good luck getting women's opinions on this board
 

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lordson has a point. if she wants space, give her space. she'll come looking for you after. if you do wait for her.
 
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