What's going on?

[SolidGold]

So here is the situation people.

I've never had many problems talking to women. According to some of them, I am a "very handsome guy who seems like he doesn't have trouble in meeting and dating girls". And in my social circle, I have the reputation of being a party dude and a ladies-man. In addition to this, I find myself loving the singles life (never had many girlfriends but some one night stands) and being afraid of commitment.

But the thing is, whenever I find someone who I find interesting, at first they get really interested and talkative and always want to hang out but later, they get really jealous for no reason (or at least I think there's no reason), silent and distant. And this has happened many times with different girls.

So my question is, what am I missing?

Thanks in advance!

 

[BannedGod]

So here is the situation people.

I've never had many problems talking to women. According to some of them, I am a "very handsome guy who seems like he doesn't have trouble in meeting and dating girls". And in my social circle, I have the reputation of being a party dude and a ladies-man. In addition to this, I find myself loving the singles life (never had many girlfriends but some one night stands) and being afraid of commitment.

But the thing is, whenever I find someone who I find interesting, at first they get really interested and talkative and always want to hang out but later, they get really jealous for no reason (or at least I think there's no reason), silent and distant. And this has happened many times with different girls.

So my question is, what am I missing?

Thanks in advance!

The problem is you. However, now enough information to tell you what your problem is. How do you act with those girls that you find interesting?

 

[SolidGold]

I act cool. I'm funny and flirty around them.

According to my friends, unlike those girls, I never show many signs of interest or wanting to hang out with them and that's why they get pissed (i treat them like a friend and not more).

 

[BabyFaceComplex]

When they get jealous you are meant to make it clear their beliefs are irrational, don't act on their jealousy (don't delete numbers, or say you will stop talking to a girl).

You would say stuff like "I really like you, I am not like that" If they compare you to their ex all you need to say is that you are not him.

edit: realised this is with female friends, you need to make it clear you arnt interested in them and to stop acting jealous.

 

[DonJuanabe]

"i treat them like a friend and not more"

If what you say is true -- that you are handsome and cool -- then just lip lock the girl.