whats going on with her ?

[titanicdan]

ok so i met this girl a while ago and she appears to like me but i am not sure if she does or not. i am not a very nice person i tend to be fairly mean to every one who isnt on my good side and i am prety rough to the people that are and shes a nice person i happen to like her so i am nice to her i cant tell if she notices it or not.
she asks me to sit next to her during class's and when we go to lunch if she dosent have some thing to eat i buy her some thing. we went to go see a movie twice the first time we made cookies instead of going as we were to late to see the movie and i ended up meeting her family in the process and helped her wrap her Christmas presents too. then the second time we went to the movie and she ended up half way through the movie in a strange siting position with her legs over the chair to the side and her head leaning twoard me i wasnt sure if she was just geting comefey or what.

she is a fairly small person probaly 4'5" i am 5'9" she is skiny i am bulky i am not ripped but you can tell i have strength with 173 lbs i am not really comparitive to her size or weight hers being 90lbs or so. so recently she starts to hang out with one of my old friends who is roughly the same hight and weight if not a slight bit larger it seems like she's trying to make me jealous hes with her prety offten.

does any one have any advice as to if you think she likes me or not and what i should do ?

 

[Exhumed]

Make a move ASAP. The movie theatre thing she did was a huge IOI, you should have kissed her right then. It's possible she has already legitimately lost interest and is pursuing your friend. Don't get jealous or lose your cool, but go for it. Now.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

ok so i met this girl a while ago and she appears to like me but i am not sure if she does or not. i am not a very nice person i tend to be fairly mean to every one who isnt on my good side and i am prety rough to the people that are and shes a nice person i happen to like her so i am nice to her i cant tell if she notices it or not.

Ummm.... she notices trust me on that.

she asks me to sit next to her during class's and when we go to lunch if she dosent have some thing to eat i buy her some thing.

Bad move unless your also seducing her and are getting physical with her... this is called supplicating; your doing her favors HOPING it'll get you somewhere in return.

we went to go see a movie twice the first time we made cookies instead of going as we were to late to see the movie and i ended up meeting her family in the process and helped her wrap her Christmas presents too.

Pull down your pants and make sure you still have a **** between your legs; cuz the $hit your doing with her is the things she does with her girl friends. Weird how a macho mean guy like you is baking cookies and wrapping Christmas presents..... obviously I'm being over the top here, but the point I'm trying to make is ALLLLLLL these type of activities (cookies, presents etc) are putting you closer and closer to the friend zone if you aren't already there.

then the second time we went to the movie and she ended up half way through the movie in a strange siting position with her legs over the chair to the side and her head leaning twoard me i wasnt sure if she was just geting comefey or what.

She's comfortable with you, which is good, but your not taking control of the situation and making her feel more attracted to you! Instead your doing the things that you THINK will make her like you more; but are actually making her like you less in a romantic way and more in friend way...

she is a fairly small person probaly 4'5" i am 5'9" she is skiny i am bulky i am not ripped but you can tell i have strength with 173 lbs i am not really comparitive to her size or weight hers being 90lbs or so. so recently she starts to hang out with one of my old friends who is roughly the same hight and weight if not a slight bit larger it seems like she's trying to make me jealous hes with her prety offten.

does any one have any advice as to if you think she likes me or not and what i should do ?

Look you sound like your pretty inexperienced with getting women. What you want to keep in mind is ALL women, EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM, is attracted to a man.....

What a man does when he's interested in a girl is he shows her a good time and takes control. He doesn't hide his physical attraction for the girl and he AMPLIFIES the initial attraction and goes from there.

You are being controlled by HER because you think she'll suddenly want you... and THAT is where your wrong, VERY WRONG!!


And your height and weight don't matter unless your extremely short or extremely fat/skinny. Sure guys that are in great shape and have good genetics have it easier at the initial phase, but your game is what gets her wet for you.

Sounds like you need to read the Bible.


Last thing; 4'5 is not fairly small..... that's like Keebler Elf small.





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