"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The_Explorer

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Its been a few years since I've been on here, and well not all going to well. Still no luck.

Anyway regardless of that, a few months ago I met a very nice lady from another Europen country who is a 9 and the body of a model.

It was more of having fun when I spoke to her than actually trying to get anywhere (something about waiting for a drink at the bar).

All went well, as she was only in England for the weekend I wasn't expecing much, we exchanged numbers. Not long ago, she messaged me on this facebook site, and here how it goes...

The lady: Guess who is in England, and 30 days on!!!
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Me: Great to hear from you. 30 days in England! How have you been anyway? x

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yeah its a kind of interesting experiance. Im doing just fine, graduated last friday (we have another kind of schoolsystem in sweden) and trying to work here in england for a couple of weeks. how about you, what have you been up to?

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Congrats on your graduation. I've always liked the idea of moving to another country for a short time, proberbly Australia.

Yeah I've been good thanks, work is now quiet over the summer, making the most of it. Got back into DJing, and done plenty of running. I was hoping to do another half marathon sometime this year.

Where are you staying in England?

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yes, many of my friends go to australia!

marathon, not bad.. actually i'd just decided to start a run in sweden this autumn.. but its just 10 km, not so long distans for you right?!

staying in ******, or near by.. in a house of a friends friend, working at the local pub and with some catering-buisness. feel kind of lost but guess thats what you do the first days at a new job in a new country....
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10km is one of my favourite distances. You never know, you could have a chance of beating me if we raced (my personal best is only ******). I usually have more stamina than speed.

******* is not very far from where I live, maybe I should come up and see you to say hello.

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haha i will have to check my "personal best" next time i run 10km then.

maybe you should!

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You have me worried now, its sounds like you are determined to beat my time.

Are you free this Saturday afternoon?

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what were you thinking? im afraid im not.. working.. have to get back to you later when i have a day off. how far from ****** do you live?


Where do I go from here, its a bit too good to be true if she is interested in meeting, I just want the experience as I've never arranged to meet any one before! Especially as shes such a HB with the sexyist accent ever heard.

Her reply sounds very negative, although she's asking where I live (which is a 30min drive away).

Have I ****ed this one up???
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Young Anikan

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A new comer?Welcome to the duan juan's lair.Dont waste your posts on one liners you only get 10 per 24 hours,you might wanna use them to get help with some of your questions or comment on on someones post.
 

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Young Anikan said:
A new comer?Welcome to the duan juan's lair.Dont waste your posts on one liners you only get 10 per 24 hours,you might wanna use them to get help with some of your questions or comment on on someones post.
Tapped the enter key by mistake, full post is there now.
 
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