What's going on here, need input

[GameOn232]

Hi there fellas,

Weird situation here, I know she's playing some kind of game, but why and what my response should be is what I'm looking for advise on:

1) Take the girl out on a date. Had a very good time. Food was fantastic, wine was great, conversation was really nice.

2) See the girl the next day, go talk to her, she gives me a reaction like, "How dare you invade my space and come and talk to me", so I say to myself fine, screw you, and then back off.

3) Really great friend of mine (she also knows him) plan to go out and have a few beers after work. End of day, she goes over and talks to him, asks him "Where are you going, what are you doing tonight". He tells her, we're gonna have a couple of brews, come if you like.

4) 30 mins into the brews, she shows up, sits down, and while petting him on his shoulder, says "Ahh he's nice, you know HE invited me". So fine, she's there, we just take it easy, chat a bit, and then she leaves like 30 mins later.

I think she did all this to carry across some type of message, but I don't why or what. In the end, it doesn't really matter because I don't really "Care" about this girl that much, so I can just brush off , but I want to learn from this.

 

[Blackdragon5095]

First you need to put yourself out of your own shoes. You may have think that the date was fun but she come be bored as hell. Also women will date even if their not interested in you. I asked some girls about this and first they were shocked by such a question but I pulled that answer out of them. Heheh

She could have been joking when she said that. But you should be aware. It looks like she making you jealous and getting the best of your emotions. My advice is get over her and say next. Maybe you should have more women around you.

( read my little guide about women to avoid )

 

[Jariel]

Yes, this girl is playing some kind of game or pulling a test on you. The best advice I can give you is to recognise it as just that and to give it no reaction.

Many guys fall into the trap of analysing this behaviour, asking what they have done wrong and how to put it right. This is the worst thing you can do. The trick is to call her bluff and do the opposite of what she wants.

Alternatively, you could save yourself a lot of hassle and just drop this chick.

 

[GameOn232]

Any more input anyone?