Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What'd I do Wrong?

Destiny17

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I met the girl randomly at the city museum with her girlfriend. She just turned 16, and am about a year and a half older. About the third time I hung out with her I went over to her house. She was gaga over me, constantly attached to my body. Her parents were home and I fingered her and ate her out.

Fastforward about a week, I text her, she's all hot for me, saying she's wearing nothing...after I jokingly texted her "What are you wearing?"

So I call her and she sounds disinterested, distracted with her 50+ messages a day on facebook. Whatever, I make plans to pick her up from school the next day, and do so, then I take her to my house and what seemed to be a consensus.

NOTE: the day I fingered her she found my condoms in my pocket, and said something like "You're not getting any ass." Then proceeded to tell me how her ex bf with a small pic on her bulletin board raped her. She totally wigged out when I unbuttoned my pants.

So fast forward to that final day I picked her up. She's in my bedroom, I start making out with her, and sense resistance, she doesn't want to constantly do it, and when I go to finger her she pulls my hand out occasionally. Something is not right.

The night before this happened I checked her facebook, and she's got hearts on her page- another guys iming her, i cant wait to talk to you baby... whatever, did not phase me, this 16 year old skinny punk.

Well, this has been the case for the last week since I saw her, an array of about 3 guys-one after the next, commenting on her facebook-lets do something baby- then she replies on their page okay blah blah blah.

I have no idea what I did that suddenly killed her interest. I'm two years older, have a hot car, the list goes on...muscular and good looking.

How do I resurrect this relationship? I know for a fact I shouldn't have texted her that many times in one session. But that can't explain why she was uninterested.
Note 2: When I went down on her she hadn't shaved in a couple days and I'm not gonna lie, it wasn't top notch.

Guys-please-just if for future reference-help me notice what I did wrong.
What steps do I play out now? Call her back a week later to hang out? She never really called me in the 2 week stint we had- and maybe I didn't give her enough opportunity to miss me from the beginning and call me and grow attached. Maybe she thinks I'm just in it for the ass-and got big time turned off since she was raped. Any experience/knowledge from the gurus?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ConantheLibertarian

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Why would she allow someone who raped her to put a picture on her Facebook page? Also if she did get raped, why was there no resistance the first time you engaged in sexual acts with her? She sounds like a chick who, in the recent past, had sex with a guy soon after meeting him. And now she regrets doing it and feels slvtty. So you get to deal with the giant shield she's wielding as a result of it.

As for the 50 messages, you know you shouldn't do it, even said why you shouldn't (let her miss you.) But you still don't see how that could have caused disinterest on her part? But then again, why'd she go that far again with you if she wasn't interested? Sounds like a c0cktease headcase to me, I'd avoid at all costs.
 

oteao99

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next her now. You can do much better than that man. Remember this quote, "the more you get denied the more you get laid"
 

Tha Realnezz

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Destiny17 said:
I met the girl randomly at the city museum with her girlfriend. She just turned 16, and am about a year and a half older. About the third time I hung out with her I went over to her house. She was gaga over me, constantly attached to my body. Her parents were home and I fingered her and ate her out.
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M0therfuucker.....are u crazy?
 

Tha Realnezz

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This b1tch done had her way with this nigga......lolololololololololol.........

You ate her out and she tells you she ain't giving you azz?Man..

Plus the chic is messed in the head she said the dude "raped" her and he's still on her page?Geet the **** outta here,run,try to meet her and get your **** sucked but forget about this chic,she used you..
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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