What would you guys do in this situation?

[RockaRolla25]

I have a friend who just moved into a new apartment with his girlfriend. Right off the bat, I will say that she is smoking hot. But, I am worried that she might be a cheater because of what happened. For the sake of this discussion, let's refer to my name as "Bob" and my friend as "Joe."

Let me tell the guys what happened:

So they moved in about 2 weeks ago and I went over to see the place and she was walking around in a sports bra and short shorts with her buttcheeks hanging out. My friend yelled at her when I walked in and said, "I told you Bob was coming over! Why didn't you get dressed?!?!" She goes, "I am dressed!" and he was like, "Barely! Cover yourself up!" and she was like "No, I wanna walk around naked like I always do. I'm sure Bob won't care." And then I was like, "Yeah I don't care." And then she was like, "See?!?! He doesn't care!" and then my friend was like, "You're not walking around naked, WTF?!?!?!" and she was like, "Why not?!?!?" and then he was like, "because I said so. He's not your boyfriend."So she got pissed and didn't get naked and just stayed how she was dressed.

But then a few days later I get a call from her and she goes, "There's something wrong with the stove, can you come over and see?" and I was like, "Isn't Joe there?" and she was like, "No he's at work." So I told her I will be over soon and she was like, "OK I'll leave the door open, just come in when you get here." So I get there and walk in and she's standing in the living room naked and my mouth just dropped open in shock. And she was like, "Can you check the stove?" and I was like, "Uhhhhhhhh, you're not wearing anything........" and she was like, "Yeah, so what? Is that a problem?" and I was like, "Uh no it just seems weird," and she was like, "Whatever, I told you the other day that I would walk around naked but Joe won't let me when there's people over cuz he's an ******* sometimes."
I checked the stove and didn't know what was wrong with it and then she just said that she will end up calling someone.

I have a funny feeling that she lied about the stove and just called me over so I could see her naked. Maybe she's an exhibitionist and a tease? because she never tried to hook up with me. She just stood near me and did things normally around the house. She never hinted at a hook up.

My friend never found out about this because I didn't tell him and I doubt she told him because he never said anything to me. But, isn't this a bad sign? If she's willing to get naked in front of me and I'm her boyfriend's best friend, wouldn't you think she would have no problem getting naked in front of other guys?

I wanna tell my friend but I don't want him getting mad at me and ruin their relationship, but at the same time I feel like he could do better than a girl like this. Would any of you guys just trust a girl who doesn't care about being naked like that?

 

[Mr. Cappucino]

Okay buddy. Obviously she's one of two things: a nudist( tehee), or a tease. Now if you like her, let her be the first to make a move. Now i know that sounds unorthodox, but if you make the move on her and she turns out to just be a nudist or she's not interested, she could probably play the victim and tell her boyfriend what you did to her, and you end up in the losing side. If you don't like her, just ignore her and act normal when she's naked. Then she'll probably be more turned on, not get enough of you, and ruin the relationship herself. If your buddy asks, just say you didn't realize or you didn't, then the both of you reconcile over some nice hot coffee!:yes:

 

[TheSlasher]

My experience with this kind of guys is that they don't listen even if you tell them about that. Heck, I haven't been into this kind of situation (Bob's POV) so I wouldn't know what I'd do either if I was in "Bob's" place, and a friend told me about my girlfriend being like that. Though I presume that I would give her a little allowance to see if she changes, while I get to find a new replacement. A girlfriend is a serious thing more than just dating, so I must be stricter in stuff like that.

Anyway, try to sense or analyze the overall personality of the girl first. If things go cool after a week or two, and it appears that she was really just a nudist, tell your friend that if he's not okay with a nudist, he should find a different girlfriend. If the girl tries to seduce you, get a feel for the situation, go as far as you can on the situation, without you making any initiative until even the kiss, do a recording of it, and warn your friend about her. But then again, like I said, my experience with this kind of guys is that they don't listen even if you tell them about that.

 

[dasein]

Tell him. Do it in front of her if it makes you feel better. "What was up with that 'fixing the stove' BS the other day and I got here and you were naked?"

If he can't handle it, and doesn't see what's going on with this trash, then let him be and stay away from her. Hang around him elsewhere if you remain friends. Every woman I've known in life who did things like that had a personality disorder, who knows about this particular one? Just saying.

But do tell him, apply the golden rule, wouldn't you want to know if your live-in GF were doing this? If she did it with you, how many "stoves need fixing" with other guys?