"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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wh01987

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For further refreance,

I was at a party with my girlfriend and everyone was freaking and dancing or whatever they wanted, some cool shmuck comes up behind my girlfriend grabs her and pulls her and basicly humps her ass and she pushed him hella hard and he grabbed her ass and basicly got hella mad she pushed him

I dont know if i acted immature but i got in his face and pushed him around and yelled at him and i kinda felt like an overprotective idiot but at the same time i feel like I should have laid him flat out right there.

What would most of you do in theses situations im sure they will come up again.
If a guy disrepects your girlfriend like that none the less any girl for that matter dont you have the right to just lay him out... :kick:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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coolguy676767

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You thought you over-reacted by pushing him?....are you serious


Punch him right in the damn face, and not only once, repeatedly until someones pulls you off of him, if she gets mad and breaks up with you fro doing this, after he did something like he did, then well sorry but she didnt like you that much. Being overprotective would be if he asked for a dance without knowing you were going out with her, and then you got in his face even if he was just innocently asking the wrong person, but still acting courteous. But as soon as he grabbed her ass, I would have ladi him out right there.
 

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i think you acted fine, i would have made a big scene of it too. jab to the stomach, spear tackle and then a right hook.
 

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Nothing wrong with what you did. I think you kept your cool and handled it just right, don't sweat it.
 

strams4ever

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If it was some random dude who didnt know you two were together, kick his ass.

If he knew you two were together, kick his.... extra hard?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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dont get mad, its a sign of weakness. Just 1 good strong punch to his jaw will get the point across well.
 

Jay-X

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i would go up to him and say "what's the matter b1tch", if he didn't say "sorry", i would start to laugh at his face, until he touches me. then, he's totaled
 
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