"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What Would You Do (older news story)

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I've been seeing a lot of this kind of sh!t lately, and I saw this video this morning and it struck a chord. A friend of mine was attacked at a bar last week by some hideous beast because he made a comment about her a$$ being big. She hit him hard in the mouth giving him a fat lip and making him bleed, and as he moved backward to avoid getting hit again, he slipped on some gravel and fell down the side of an embankment on the patio and broke his arm.

When I got into a fight last year simply defending myself, I had to go to jail and ended up with a misdemeanor on my record for assault and battery.

As for this video, if I were in this man's shoes, I would have knocked her on her ass regardless of the social pressure from the other passengers.

I'm curious how you all would handle this situation if you had been in this man's shoes.

Would the alpha exercise restraint? Try to restrain her? Or simply defend himself as if this were an assault by a man?

http://www.universalhub.com/2012/police-investigate-red-line-attack-captured-youtub
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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witha video on I would sue her, ask for a restrain order, and pretty much make sure she never would place her filth feets on that place again :)

for that video I would just block her arm and make her really feel a pain with each attack, and still sue her for assault :)
 

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If he has medical bills and witnesses, a civil suit would be a sure thing. He might even get a lawyer on contingency. Tell him to look for a younger attorney with a solo practice who has to hustle just to pay his bills.
 

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That guy was not a small guy by any means...he could have grabbed that b1tch and put her in an arm lock...

This is fvcked...if some b1tch was going off on me like that, I might wait until she makes the first move, then I'll take her arm and lock it behind her back and put her on the ground, knee on her spine.

That's what I'd do...anyone who goes off like that is getting restrained...man OR woman...fvcked up.

To your original question: I would say your friend sounded like he sure agitated the fvck out of that heffer. Secondly, I would say to avoid a fight just avoid those situations...walk away...go somewhere else..it's not worth it and some people are so crazy they'll cause neuro-damage and smash your skull...the thing on this train however, the guy couldn't get away from the situation.

so fvcked.
 

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I think the guy was a little bit too timid in dealing with her. I think if he raised his voice and gave her a very stern warning, she would have backed off. I think the best way to have handled the situation would be for him to say in a loud clear voice "you can escalate this to physical violence, but there WILL be consequences....you've been warned." There are lots of witnesses on the train as well as someone taking a video of the incident. If the girl punched him, he would be perfectly within his rights to respond in kind.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yep, I don't think you have to hit a woman in that situation. There's absolutely no doubt you would have the white knights and feminists all over your arse if you put one on her chin in self defence.
Wrist lock, arm bar, take her to ground hard and sit on her. Then just laugh in her face and tell her to grow the fvck up. Then tell her she'd better sit still and keep quiet while you finish your food.
 

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I would have walked away. He had a couple minutes to do so. Who needs the drama, besides one's own ego?
 
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