I have a girlfriend in New York but there's this girl in my class that I'm feeling a little something for. In terms of chicks I know how to choose who's hot and who's not and let me tell you this girl won't go below HB9. I can tell she kinda likes me from the very first day but earlier I made one of the dumbest move. She asked one of our classmate for her phone number and as soon as I heard that I knew and felt she was going to ask me for mine. To make story short she did ask me and I told her I don't have a cell phone...UGH!!!...It's true, I don't but I could've given my home phone number. After that she kind of started avoiding me. Not so smooth there I know. What would you do in my situation? I'm 20 yrs old and I have a girlfriend in another state but I feel like giving other chicks a chance!~
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
what would you do in my sistuation?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Gangster Of Love
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So tell your girlfriend you want to give other chicks a chance, and give other chicks a chance.vagrant said:I have a girlfriend in New York but there's this girl in my class that I'm feeling a little something for. In terms of chicks I know how to choose who's hot and who's not and let me tell you this girl won't go below HB9. I can tell she kinda likes me from the very first day but earlier I made one of the dumbest move. She asked one of our classmate for her phone number and as soon as I heard that I knew and felt she was going to ask me for mine. To make story short she did ask me and I told her I don't have a cell phone...UGH!!!...It's true, I don't but I could've given my home phone number. After that she kind of started avoiding me. Not so smooth there I know. What would you do in my situation? I'm 20 yrs old and I have a girlfriend in another state but I feel like giving other chicks a chance!~
If i were you, i would've took the number. Your not married, and as long as you don't let anything happen, see where it goes with this girl. If you really start to dig her more than your girl from new york, than take a couple days and figure out if you need to break up with the new yorker.
Last time i did it was all drama. I told her there was this girl who's been giving me rides home and asking me for my phone number and it went to disaster from there. But then again I have a big mouth and everytime I'm talking with my girl I'd tell her everything. She's got her way of interrogating me you know.Gangster Of Love said:So tell your girlfriend you want to give other chicks a chance, and give other chicks a chance.
Damn it. I'm in a situation where years from now I may or may not wish I did something. Okay I'll try to figure this out. She might even have a boyfriend already if she's that damn hot, so I gotta get her out of my head a little. thanks bro!~soxfan31 said:If i were you, i would've took the number. Your not married, and as long as you don't let anything happen, see where it goes with this girl. If you really start to dig her more than your girl from new york, than take a couple days and figure out if you need to break up with the new yorker.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Its not about being a player. Its about being a man and knowing your convictions. If you start fooling around with another girl behind your gf's back, your not the "Prize" that everyone on this site tells each other. Come on man, theres ****y and arrogant, and theres just plain A__Hole.
She asked me today if i have a girlfriend and i just smiled at her. I asked her if she has a boyfriend. She said he's in the navy and they've been together for 2 and a half years. I've never been in a situation like this. I mean going for a girl with a boyfriend. She's the hot chick type that if you stick around you'll fall for sure. Damn pretty and NICE. She's a DJ female if you ask me. lol. Should I just stay friends with her cuz this sh*t isn't going anywhere? or should I start breaking through the friend zone?
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Understand this - there is no such thing as girl "friend"!!
backbreaker
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1. i find it highly ironic how when women cheat they are hors to be burned at the stake, but when guys here do it all is fair in the prusuit of ass.
you oguth to be a fvcking shamed of your self for dating someone and fvcking someone else.
when I did keep a rotation, I dated none of them and they all knew I was open. you are playing with someones heart and you will get burned sooner rather than later. I hope the ***** has ebola and it eats your **** off.
2. this isn't 1908. this is 2007. get a ****ing cell phone. at least a pre paid phone. fvcking loser
you oguth to be a fvcking shamed of your self for dating someone and fvcking someone else.
when I did keep a rotation, I dated none of them and they all knew I was open. you are playing with someones heart and you will get burned sooner rather than later. I hope the ***** has ebola and it eats your **** off.
2. this isn't 1908. this is 2007. get a ****ing cell phone. at least a pre paid phone. fvcking loser
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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BB, you are contradicting yourself - read your last few posts - you encouraged it in other posts!!!
Hors are loyal to no one - you are a fool if you think such!!!!!
Only be loyal to your wife - you took an oath!!
Hors are loyal to no one - you are a fool if you think such!!!!!
Only be loyal to your wife - you took an oath!!
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
lol, see LMS that's where I am often mistaken.
I fvckign a woman and DATING a woman are two different things. I have FVCKED alot of women. I only DATE one. and hwile I"m dating her, I wont' fck anyone else.. otherwise I wouldn't have dated her. I dont' have the urge to. if and when i do, and I'm not talking about HB15 is my doctor and I have a hard on, but I get the urge to want to go out and look for ass.. then I know it's time to move on.
just because women do this all the time.. you have to hold yourself to a higher standard than these slutbuckets. otherwise you are not deserving to the DJ title.
I fvckign a woman and DATING a woman are two different things. I have FVCKED alot of women. I only DATE one. and hwile I"m dating her, I wont' fck anyone else.. otherwise I wouldn't have dated her. I dont' have the urge to. if and when i do, and I'm not talking about HB15 is my doctor and I have a hard on, but I get the urge to want to go out and look for ass.. then I know it's time to move on.
just because women do this all the time.. you have to hold yourself to a higher standard than these slutbuckets. otherwise you are not deserving to the DJ title.
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BB, this is a convoluted answer for my rational mind!
You are sexing a girl who you don't deem worthy so no honor or loyalty is deserved, but yet you are sexing, cough, "dating" a girl who you deem worthy so she is labeled in another category!! WHY??
You are sexing a girl who you don't deem worthy so no honor or loyalty is deserved, but yet you are sexing, cough, "dating" a girl who you deem worthy so she is labeled in another category!! WHY??
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
... I didn't read where you were far away from your GF... but yes it does...
which goes to the original point
YOU SHOULDN'T BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A WOMAN YOU CAN'T HAVE SEX WITH AT LEAST ONCE A WEEK.
that solves all these problems. my old oneitis, the most faithful motherfcker I have ever seen in my life, when her BF of 3years was off 200 miles away in college... the first time we ever had sex was because she was "lonley" and needed someone. it wasn't me.. i promise you it wasn't me. it was me inside her. she probably even closed her eyes and thought about him for all I know.
It's not like it'st he end of the relationship. it's not burning a bridge. Just tell her..
"look.. I like you, I like you alot. I like you to the point where I'm going to treat you with enough repect to not hurt our relationship. I care about you but I can't promise what will happen when I'm away, and you likewise.. tehrefore it's best while we are apart we take a break.. and if we still have the feelings we do now for each ohter then, then we can pick it back up right where it left off"
you accomplish 3 thigns here that most dumbasses are do well..dumb.. to get
1) you gain "damn this mother****er has game" points
2) you STILL get to fvck her whenever you are in town (i promise you.. BF or not.. that candle is still burning)
3) you get to GUILT Free and blame free, get to fvck anything with a pvssy on campus... tell her about it.. and all she will want to do is fvck you more to keep you!!!
don't you see that you guys are stumbling over your own feet with these women?
which goes to the original point
YOU SHOULDN'T BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A WOMAN YOU CAN'T HAVE SEX WITH AT LEAST ONCE A WEEK.
that solves all these problems. my old oneitis, the most faithful motherfcker I have ever seen in my life, when her BF of 3years was off 200 miles away in college... the first time we ever had sex was because she was "lonley" and needed someone. it wasn't me.. i promise you it wasn't me. it was me inside her. she probably even closed her eyes and thought about him for all I know.
It's not like it'st he end of the relationship. it's not burning a bridge. Just tell her..
"look.. I like you, I like you alot. I like you to the point where I'm going to treat you with enough repect to not hurt our relationship. I care about you but I can't promise what will happen when I'm away, and you likewise.. tehrefore it's best while we are apart we take a break.. and if we still have the feelings we do now for each ohter then, then we can pick it back up right where it left off"
you accomplish 3 thigns here that most dumbasses are do well..dumb.. to get
1) you gain "damn this mother****er has game" points
2) you STILL get to fvck her whenever you are in town (i promise you.. BF or not.. that candle is still burning)
3) you get to GUILT Free and blame free, get to fvck anything with a pvssy on campus... tell her about it.. and all she will want to do is fvck you more to keep you!!!
don't you see that you guys are stumbling over your own feet with these women?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.