"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What women want - Men not wusses!

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Today pretty women seem to be searching for something in most guys that seems to be lost. _What is it you ask? Masculinity!

In our society now most men have been brainwashed into believing that chicks want "sensitive, caring and emotional" men. _Don't buy into it! _Women still want and NEED the same thing they've wanted millions of years ago...a strong, confident and emotionally secure man. _Remember, what women say they want and what they actually need are in two different categories. _They themselves have been taught by Mommy and society to believe that they want a man that will cater to them and put them above all else in the world. _But they are drawn to men who do their own thing and take the lead and not follow like all the other wusses do. _It's a fact!

Beautiful women are approached in one way or another all the time and are bored out of their minds waiting for the kind of guy who will spark some attraction in them. _Don't get me wrong, they want to be approached, but not by a guy who is going to say whatever he thinks will make her like him. _She wants someone who doesn't act desperate and could care less if she likes him, because he has so many options, not just her. _Women have a sixth sense when it comes to detecting desperation from a man. _Don't cater to her, make her chase you. _That's what women want to do for a change. _They get tired of being chased around by all these guys who basically put themselves into the LJBF's zone by doing all of these negative things. _Let's stop this behavior. Women want men who speak up and make decisions for themselves. _They don't want a guy who they ask, "So what do you want to do? _Whatever you want to do dear." _That's boring, and remember women don't want boring guys. _They already think their own life is relatively boring enough. _They want a man who can make them feel excited and light that fire in them that they've been longing to FEEL for a long time. _Wusses don't make them have that feeling. _Strong, dominant and masculine men do! Go do your own thing. _Be who you are and not give a damn what women and society thinks for a change. _I'll guarantee you that your success will change with women! _They will sense that you are 'that guy' who doesn't need her and her approval all the time, because you are your own man. _Show the world that you are a charismatic guy and can have fun in any situation and you are the prize to be won, not the woman. _This goes against everything that we've been brainwashed by society and our mommies our whole lives to believe.

It's time to take back control and be a society full of real MEN once again.
I guarantee you, millions of years ago men had to display all of these masculine values or they would starve to death and some alpha male would come into their cave and take their woman from them. _Things are different today, but the basic concept is still alive and well. _You can't change history and the way women feel about these types of guys, it's still in their genetics. _Let's start acting the way guys are supposed to act - like guys! _That my friend is what women are waiting for.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Champ1 says, "What women want - Men not wusses!"

You are preaching to the choir, bro!
 

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archive it.....to the bible....no doubt!!!
 

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don't archive it. Read this somewhere and it's been said and done in the bible.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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